Many of us have moved short distances, but sometimes a new job or other opportunity requires us to move to a completely different part of the country, or even to another country entirely. These moves require a little more planning than your typical move across town.

Long-distance moves are generally more costly than shorter moves. If you’re driving, the fuel costs are higher, you may need to stay in hotels for several nights, and you’ll be eating out every day. If you’re traveling overseas, the cost to transport your belongings can be exorbitant. The farther away you’re moving, the more sense it makes to really pare your possessions down to the bare essentials; it will save on packing time as well.

Depending on where you’re going, and for how long, you may not be able to take all of your belongings with you. Chances are there’s a self-storage facility nearby with an inexpensive plan for lengthy storage rental. Ask friends and colleagues for referrals to places with good reputations.

If your move is going to cause you to be separated from loved ones, make the most of the time you have together before you leave. Purchase plenty of prepaid calling cards so that you can stay in touch.

Moving can seem very scary to young children. Your local library or bookstore should have books to help children address their feelings and prepare themselves for the change. Make reading these books together a daily ritual.

Moving to a country where you don’t speak the language and aren’t familiar with the customs can be particularly stressful. Spend as time as you can at the library or online doing research to help make the transition smoother.

Focus on the benefits of your move rather than on the effort involved. Even if you’re moving out of necessity rather than by choice, new opportunities await you, so approach them with a positive attitude and the determination to make the most of them.